Disclaimer - sorry for the language.
So again I’m really stuck for what to do, and as a carer I feel like I’m on the receiving end of so much abuse, and I feel like no one cares. As a carer I’m supposed to just take this on the cheek and act like nothing is happening.
So today, me and my sister did our weekend pack up shop for the week ahead. Whilst we were traveling my mum frantically was ringing me. She called me about 50 times in 5 minutes. All because she wanted to know what time me and my sister were going round to drop some money off at hers.
Because I didn’t stop and answer her call, she is calling me abusive and is directing some awful language at me. Instead I just bank transferred it instead of cash to make it quicker, but it was not good enough for her, and she had been on a rampage ever since.
It’s all getting too much for me. I’ve been getting abuse all day.
Her mental state is so bad. It was her birthday the other week, I took her out for a meal and paid for it, I bought her a brand new watch from Tk maxx, and got her loads of bits, my sister got her a new jewellery box which she asked for, and a necklace . She is now saying it’s all not good enough and is ‘’cheap s**t. She’s told me she’s smashed the entire lot.
Because I didn’t get to her fast enough she said she has taken pills and is in the hospital and she’s told social services about how abusive I am for getting her the cheap presents.
She said she’s calling my work to get me fired because I’m abusive to her.
She’s also kicking off because she doesn’t want me to spend any time with my sister anymore (her daughter) because she can’t join in to. It wasn’t a day out, we went to Aldi for some sandwich bits, and then went home. My sister needs my help because she’s partially sighted.
Caring is not supposed to be enabling abuse, but it doesn’t matter who I tell no one cares,