Hi all,
So yesterday I got the news that mum has got a pre tenancy interview for a flat a couple of streets away from where she is now. She’s seen the place and honestly, it is awful. It’s a house that is split up into two parts.
She said she doesn’t like it, and she’s also worried about who else lives there. We don’t know who they are or anything, and we won’t know until after she signs the contract. She is a vulnerable woman and it could be anybody and she is prone to exploitation.
I spoke to the housing people and I said she really needs to be in sheltered accommodation. (Yes. Other people live there however it’s designed for older people, so less riff-raff)
Moving her from one house to another a couple of streets away is not going to solve any of the problems at all.
The council have also bid on this house for her, and said that because it’s ground level it would be perfect. As if that is the only reason.
She had an ot assessment but it doesn’t say on there that she needs the supported accommodation. I tried to call them at social services and was promised a call back but it never came.
However if she now turns this place down without good reason it will go against her.
We have also been looking at other housing charities who offer the same type of accommodation but I’ve only just been able to send of the application.
Another thing I’m also bothered about is moving. She cannot afford to move as the carers take every spare bit of money she has. I definitely cannot afford to lend it either, even if I did I would never see it again because the carers would have it.
I just don’t know what the right thing to do is and it’s worrying me.