I know!! But I need to get that across to him.
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@AnimalLover my husband was medically unwell which is now severe depression. He ‘needed’ me here and I gave in at first. I am now drawing that line and doing what I want. I provide all he needs and go out. He cries and sobs, hanging onto me and it is hard but I need to get out from the pressure.
If you do not do it the resentment you feel will be over-powering and you will be ill. It is really hard but know you have this support where so many of us are in it, been there, getting through it, you know you are entitled to draw boundaries.
He will be OK, just needs to accept you have a life, sending hugs
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@Tiredanne Utterly and totally agree with your comments. x
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You are absolutely right, Tiredanne. I have to work up the courage to do that. Hugs to you too!
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