@Tiredanne Thanks for asking, I am OK, working my way through a maze of legal considerations and finding that I’m unsure of which path to take. R (husband) is still in hospital and likely to be so for a couple more weeks at least. He has said he accepts that I cant live with him any longer and I have taken him to view a couple of retirement flats. He is quite interested in one of them. However he is very much on the charm offensive at the moment, being as accommodating as possible! This is managing to sow seeds of doubt in me, especially when I realise just how much my lifestyle will have to change due to the financial situation I will find myself in! All that said I’m still moving forward with it… I’ve been speaking to solicitors today about transferring ownership of our house over to me so that when I come to sell up I wont have to rely on him being in a good place mentally to be able to move it forward, something that stalled a sale previously.
He seems to be making progress though, his medical team think he may have been discharged too quickly before (exactly what I argued at the time!) and are intending to make sure he is stabilized on his medication for a while before discharge…lets hope so, especially if I relent and decide to give it yet another go!!!
Anyway, enough of me! How are things with you?
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