When there is no escape

Am trapped. No escape. If i go my spouse said they will die. They won’t let anyone else care for them. It makes me feel of ending us both.

Hi Flower,
welcome back - though sorry you are experiencing such difficult times with your spouse.

Last time you posted, he was living in residential care where they could meet his very high care needs; but you were visiting a lot as he demanded visits if you didn’t visit.

Is he at home now?


Flower, you need some escape, you cannot be trapped all the time.

Flower - please don’t let them treat you like this! This is so wrong.
Tell us more about your situation and we will try to help.