Just feel like I’m getting absolutely nowhere. According to the social worker, the local are are innunfated with helping people, it could take 7 weeks to get a response.
I have spoken to shelter and they have put me in touch with a place called the CLA.
I’ve also bid on a couple of places and mum is still coming up with medical priority, she is also quite high on the list. Currently first for 1 and third for the other.
I don’t know if third means she doesn’t have a chance.
My sister is also just absolutely annoying me. I’ve applied to multiple places, but she doesn’t want mum to go in them.
I’ve applied to over 55s sheltered accommodation and bungalows but my sister keeps saying these accommodations are for people with special needs, and people who can’t move. She just will not listen. She’s also saying mum doesn’t need a bungalow because she’s not old.
She’s putting ideas into my mums head and it’s ruining everything. I know it’s because she wants my mum to get a 2 bed place so she’s got a back up plan if she splits up with her boyfriend. But it’s so delicate now, mum just needs somewhere for her needs.
I’ve spoken to mum about what she wants, and she wants the supported accommodation. She has seen it and really liked it. She wants a space to call her own and do up accordingly.
Mum is also band b medical priority so it shows she needs this. I also think she would benefit from social housing as it puts her in a more secure place- no more non fault section 21s.
My sister keeps coming up with flats but we keep saying 1) the LHA rate won’t cover it 2) they may look nice but you don’t know if they have damp 3) you don’t know what the landlord is like until you have a problem. 4) no pets 5) cheaper places often in bad areas/ how is mum and her history of trauma ever going to feel safe regardless 6) no wet room.
The places I have seen allow animals, and she loves her cat so can’t give him up. It’s not fair on the poor animal, because everyone knows what will happen otherwise.
My sister is also 22, and behaves like a promiscuous feral teenager. It’s just not good for mum. She’s only going to get older and after her eventual knee operation she will need more help. No one knows what the future holds housing wise too, so the sooner the better.