Hi there,
Im a carer for both parents (separately) sometimes finding it a bit overwhelming. Father has dementia, mother very limited mobility. I also work full time. Hoping to come here for occasional advice, particularly for my Dad as I find dealing with dementia a struggle sometimes, and maybe the odd rant! (hopefully not though!) Feeling better already knowing theres so many of you out there in a similar situation. I have no one in my family/friends circle who understand my situation.
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Welcome to the forum. Lots of options possible, but it really depends on the answers to the following questions:-
How old are you, and your parents?
Do you live with them?
Do they own, or rent their home?
What disability benefits are they getting?
Outside help?
Do they have over £46,000 between them (Yes/No)?
Do you need more help?
When did you last have a holiday?!
Hi Jackie
Welcome to CUK, this is a really supportive forum but for dementia issues I would also recomend the Alzheimer Society’s forum Talking Point
They deal with all types of dementia and not just Alzheimers- I really wish they would change their name!
FREE MP3s preloaed with the music of choice for all with dementia in the uk, inc Scotland, Northern Ireland and Wales
Please get in touch with me on here
This is a good space to vent or ask for advice when you need it. Sometimes just talking to people who understand makes it a bit easier
@jackie_1901 Welcome from me. Ranting is acceptable and no judgement from me! You do have a huge amount to cope with if you are caring for both your parents and they live seperately? Also working full time. Do you get any help at all? Is there anything you could delegate to make YOUR life easier?
We do have ‘Roll Call’ where we share the ups and downs of caring. Lots of support and empathy and even some laughter at times.
I care for my medically non complaint 85 year old husband. My mother is also 85 but she lives over 2 hours away and I do not drive so I am not involved in her day to day care but I am in contact with her and I do worry about her as I am an only child.