New to Forum (caring for son with mental health issues)

New to Carers Connect
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Hi Everybody,

I"m new here but not to caring - my 17 year old son has had mental health issues since he was 11 (PTSD, depression, anxiety, suspected EUPD/BPD, also mild ASD). It’s only recently that I realised I’m a carer - even though I’ve had to give up my job to look after him full time I thought I was just being a parent. Things are getting worse and I’m frequently finding myself at breaking point. My husband is supportive but clueless and happy-go-lucky. It’s nice for my son to have that balance, but means I have nobody who understands my sometimes unspeakable thoughts and feelings.

I am aware of all the online resources and have joined the local Carers group, but so far haven’t ‘met’ anybody in a similar situation - I’m hoping I can do so here.

Thanks for reading, and no matter how tough things are I hope you come across one thing today that puts a smile on your face…

Sharla

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Hi Sharla and welcome,

there are others on here who are caring for a young person with MH issues, they just haven’t popped onto the forum yet to reply.

Melly1

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Hello I care for three young adults with autism and other mental health too. I am finding things heard with care and looking for work plus finance too. Feeling very isolated and need to talk. Thanks

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Giselle, if you get Carers Allowance you cannot be asked by DWP to look for work.
Do all your young adults claim PIP and ESA or similiar?
Have they each had a Needs Assessment from Social Services?