Concerned about another carer, I don’t know what to do.
He just seems to be caring all the time for his friend , every night he is round cooking dinner, cleaning, tidying the house, shopping, you name it he does it.
His friend likes to stay up late, and doesn’t want as he puts it , these stupid carers putting him to bed, this carer does dead late, I have gone past the house seen the carers car parked in the drive past midnight. But then he wants this carer to make him breakfast as he doesn’t want these stupid carers cooking his breakfast.
He seems to be doing this every day, it’s like he lives there but he doesn’t he has his own house and family.
I am really worried about this carers health, how much sleep is he getting, not enough.
It seems like a codependent relationship that he can’t get away, his friend just rings continuously, can you do this can you do that.
If he was getting paid even a token amount then it would be a bit better, the carers get paid but they just don’t seem to do anything.
It seems this carer is just doing all the work.
He needs to just break away not see this friend anymore is he a friend? I don’t think so really.
And surely these carers should be raising concerns?
This situation just seems very wrong.