Introducing myself!

Hi, I am Jenny. I care for my 90 Yr old mum, with Alzheimer’s. My lovely uncle (mum’s younger brother) has a rare and very aggressive cancer & my younger daughter has newborn twins! I am run ragged between them all! Not asking for sympathy. Just needed to offload xxx

You cannot be all things to all people!
What outside help do mum and uncle have? Both receiving Attendance Allowance?
Mum claiming Council Tax exemption?