Hi
I wonder if anymore could point me in the right direction.
I have been caring for my parents for the last 5 years, I am also a single parent with a 5 year old girl.
Last year out of the blue my father was diagnosed with leukaemia in May 19. He passed away in July 19. Since then my mother who had a stroke 8 years ago and was diagnosed in Aug 19 with vascular dementia has gone rapidly down hill she is currently in hospital and we have been advised she will need to go into a nursing home. She did not meet the criteria for CHC so she will be a self funded.
I’m her Carer but because she is in hospital I can no longer receive Carers allowance & income support. The benefits they are telling me that I can get are JSA. After everything what I have had to deal with I am suffering with depression and anxiety and still haven’t had time to grieve my father because of trying to sort things out with my mum.
I’m not sleeping properly I go to the hospital everyday still because the stroke my mum had affected her speech. English was a second language. She only regained a slurred speech and speaks in Sicilian dialect. And the Italian interpreters do not understand her.
My head isn’t in the right place to be thinking of workings this precise moment in time.
Can anyone advise what I can do
Thanks
Anna