Hi, once again I am writing about the abuse of my mum. Services are failing to act on a very serious case of abuse. It’s all just so messed up, I can’t believe that there is such a serious case of neglect all round. Services in East Yorkshire are so abysmal.
I have written the fact that my mums ‘ex friend’ is threatening to harm her constantly. He is threatening her saying he will petrol bomb her house and will run her over with his car. He is constantly telling her he wants her dead. He is telling her that her whole family wants her dead so she may aswell do it.
The guy has served prison time for severe abuse of multiple women including children and is a raging alcoholic. The guy is a known abuser multiple convictions and has served many years in prison. The guy is getting worse and worse and is making constant fake accounts to harass mum. As soon as she blocks one, he makes another, it’s a constant loop.
He is also messaging my 20 year old sister saying he wants to sexually abuse her and how she slept with my dad and loved it.
The guy is also constantly ringing the police making false accusations and mum has been placed on bail. He accused her of strangling him when she had a fractured arm for gods sake, the police let him get away with what he did and arrested her instead. she was in cells for 24 hours with no help even though she had limited function due to her physical disabilities combined with her fractured arm.
She has balance problems due to osteoarthritis in her knee and used her arms for balance. How she was meant to strangle him I don’t know. He marked his skin and showed the police, she got in bother. He even admitted to her that he did it.
He is constantly messaging members of the family and her practically all hours of the day threatening harm. He has been doing this for weeks. Once an account or phone number has been blocked, he is making another. Mum blocks one and within minutes there is another one trying to get through.
The police have been called multiple times but they keep saying ignore it. Mum is very scared and thinks she is going to be murdered, she is a wreck. She is crying all the time. She is also working with DAP.
She has also spoken to the police but they keep saying that she is breaching her bail conditions, by reporting him for what he is doing since she is on bail for harassment of him. They say by ringing the police she is harassing him. There is so much evidence but they are choosing to ignore it. They are also refusing to believe the fake accounts are him because they can’t prove it. He is literally giving himself away in the messages and saying it’s him. He is threatening to rpe my little sister and murder my mum.
The guy is playing the crazy woman card and the police are buying it. I am just scared that my mum will end up dead and my sister abused, and then the police will say oh well we didn’t know despite the fact that they have been told multiple times.
All the police say is to report the accounts to Facebook but they are so nondescript that they aren’t even flagging up in systems and I always get messages back to say that there is nothing wrong.
I’m just so scared what if he kills her. Will there just be countless articles in the papers saying “sorry, we didn’t know” like all these cases that keep appearing constantly.
Social services are also been so useless safeguarding teams are saying it’s not their problem and they can’t do anything and it’s not a safeguarding concern. How is being threatened to be murdered not a bloody safeguarding concern?
It just shocking. I can’t keep doing this it’s having such an effect. All services seem to be bothered about is money instead of helping someone.
It’s just shocking because mums previous social worker raised concerns and spoke to people about them. The guy has gone crazy because the ball started to roll and action was taken against him, when her social worker changed the rug was pulled from under her feet. They have literally left her without support and won’t even hold themselves accountable. I have complained a number of times and it seems like even the complaints team will only deal with things by the book, one of my previous complaints was about a duty social worker who told us wrong information. According to the complaints team there was no record of anything being said so they can’t do anything. That’s literally