Family is not always the caring, helpful support it should be. Sometimes friends are far better at supporting you and realize that some people in your own family are toxic and self centred and for the sake of your own sanity and peace you do need to stay away from them as much as possible, both in real life and online. Expect little or nothing from these so called family members, that way you won’t be disappointed.
Take comfort in the fact that whatever this person or persons are portraying, there ARE people around you who are aware of what is really going on (and if they haven’t already, at some point they WILL come to you and let you know that they know the truth).
Hope this helps someone. That is all I have to say on this subject.