My name is Carol and new to forum
I look after my mother and live with her
She is 89 yrs
I am currently working from home partly virus and part because I have just had operation on foot
Since christmas my mother’s state of mind has deteriorated
My aunt died 19th Dec then mother caught cold and her friend died January both deaths unexpected
She has also had lot of pain in hip
Whilst I understand all of this I am really struggling to deal with her constant me me attitude
With have carer coming twice a day
And also never sits still and can only think of herself
I had 3 hour operation on foot and leg
Really at my wits end

Agree some mental health care would be good