I get immediately turned off from using spoons/forks/spatulas/ ladles etc to eat or get food out of a pot or something if it’s spotty has ANY grime on it no matter how slight and in the case of spatulas/ ladles and other similar food retrieval tools I get deeply uncomfortable if they’ve been used and then left out with the food residue on them even if just for a few seconds and don’t want to use them. by no means am I the most cleanly person or the most sanitary but this particular gripe has stuck with me for years and years.
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