I work on self employed basis for 15 hours a week.
My stepfather is 86 and (awaiting diagnosis) is showing signs of dementia (I think this because I went through it with my Dad). He has the ability to recall how to do some things like washing himself etc) but is always confused and often can’t remember some basic things like taking tablets…
My mom is 85 and quite poorly herself with a few things but she is utterly exhausted from running around after him and she cannot take care of him on an ongoing basis.
Whilst we try to get to the bottom of what exactly is wrong etc, I’m having to make almost 45 mile round trips each day to provide care and support where I can - shopping, housework etc. You all know the score. This for me is also not sustainable as I currently have to work and have my own life (and pets) to run. My stepfather has 2 children who live over 600 miles away and have now not been down since last christmas and he has been ill most of this year - they are no support at all…
I am also providing part time care to my Aunt & Uncle who are both 88 and struggling to manage as well.
Despite rambling on, I think what I am trying to ask is should I apply for Carers Credit and would this stop us from being able to bring in a professional carer to look after my step father? Mom is quite capable of looking after herself on a day to day basis…
I hope that all makes sense as my head is all over the place at the minute with trying to keep on top of everything…