Hi
I don’t often come on here, not much time to, but when I do its usually because I feel the need to rant, get something off my chest or I’m really worried about something, or to ask for answers from people who might be going through the same/similar thing.
My Sister’s usual response is ‘well you are the primary carer, ring them up’.
Friends get fed up of hearing the same thing and I don’t think anyone understands until/unless they have been/are a Carer.
Mother was in Hospital when the very first Vaccine in the World was given out last year. Right age, wrong Hospital.
Hospital told me they had no Vaccine. Mother sent home a few days later.
Right away I asked GP Surgery when she might be getting a Vaccine, they didn’t know & they had none.
I’ve done this regularly ever since, same response each time.
We had a letter from NHS England, I couldn’t get through on the phone, tried online and was expected to get a housebound 92 year old to a Centre at least 20 miles away.
3 or 4 weeks ago in a local paper the local MP asked for detail of any over 80’s who had still not had the Vaccine.
I contacted him with Mother’s details.
The response was a phone number of a different Primary Care Network that she belongs to and was told to try ringing them.
I did do, constantly engaged, gave up as not the PCN Mother belongs to.
Asked the Surgery again last week, the usual response, she is on a list for a home visit, we don’t know when it will be.
Sunday I hear on the radio that GP’s will get a £10 bonus for each home visit to do a Vaccine - I begin to think there might be a bit of hope…
Imagine my excitement when the phone rang yesterday (I thought it might be the Surgery to tell me they were coming to do her 1st Vaccine - plus mine too as I’m registered with them as her Carer, ha ha).
My excitement was shortlived - it turned out to be the Window cleaners.
Yesterday on a TV Briefing I hear Matt Hancock telling people the onus is now on them to call 119 if they have still not had a Vaccine yet.
I will be trying this later, but my guess is that it means people who can travel to a Vaccination Centre.
WHEN are the Government going to take any/more notice of what unpaid family carers go through mentally, emotionally and physically and financially??
They say they won’t pay them more like a ‘minimum wage’ because they take on the role voluntarily, but how is it voluntarily when we are told by Social Services, Community Nurses et al, ‘we don’t have capacity’ - its like we have no choice but to do things or they will just not get done.
I know I am extremely lucky compared to very many of the Carers that post on here - I often think my problems are small and insignificant and what am I complaining about when I read some of the things people post on here. But sometimes I just need to get it off my chest.
I feel for ALL Carers out there, with what you have to deal with on a daily basis, day and night, often way more than I have to deal with.
Sorry, I tried to keep this short, but I’m prone to waffling.