Hi there
The SS/LA forced elderly dad into a NH straight from a hospital stay, despite saying he was NOT happy about it - but they did it anyway. I kept on asking them for a CHC funding, especially after my dad fell and sustained a brain contusion after a fall in the hospital. It was SS that put him in the hospital as well, citing fall risk. If he had remained at home, he would NOT have sustained the brain injury.
Dad lost mental capacity, when he was bullied into the NH. He also has Parkinson’s and a heart condition, which onto his age, they’re not going to operate (late 80’s) The SW went straight onto bullying me as LPA for bank statements, and threatened with police if I didn’t hand over accounts and assets, so I did.
They carried out a financial assessment on him, even though I was denied a meeting with a LA financial department SW person. I am his daughter, and have LPA, and lived with him full-time. He had 7 care package visits, per day. As dad had savings, he’s being charged £11.000 a month, which I pay with his savings as LPA, but his savings will run out this year, by Xmas at a guess. How do I go about applying for CHC? LA/SS have just barked at me, saying he won’t get it, anyway, so it’s pointless applying. I disagree.
I am at my wits end with SS nastiness and bullying tactics. They RELUCTANTLY had to disregard dad’s private home/villa, as I have lived there for the past 30 years (I’m 54) and in poor health myself, getting DLA/ESA-support group. Have had part of my bowel removed, and awaiting more invasive surgery this year. I also have severe nerve damage, and pernicious anaemia. However, that said, I believe LA/SS are trying to force me out of the house, so they can sell it, and take the money for care-home fees also. Dad told me to stay put, and sell it when he’s passed away, as NH fees have all but drained his bank accounts. I can’t afford a lawyer to help me, and SW said, they’ll get the police on me, if I pay for a lawyer with dads account, even if it’s for him, or on his behalf.
This has caused my mental health to deteriorate, and I was put on antidepressants. They don’t help the depression, and feeling of helplessness at the situation. I have no-one to fight in my corner for dad, and the family stay hundreds of miles away. I also have no siblings.