Hi
My name is Patricia
I was a main carer for my partner for over 20 years.
I’m wondering if it’s possible to communicate with someone about a very traumatic few years which led to me being investigated by police and forced from my own home.
My partner had MS and he, his daughter and his carers turned against me.
The police investigation was dropped as there was no evidence to support my partner’s accusations of fraud against me.
My partner hadn’t worked since about 2000 and I worked full time to support us both. I looked after him, sacrificed my time, my finances and my social life for many years.
I feel its vital that others hear my story and that this can be used to increase the support and safety of carers like me.
I also believe that main carers should be supported by the professionals and authorities. I was not listened to or supported as I should have been. For this reason I believe the ‘Carers Act’ needs to change.
Regards
Patricia
Hi, I have deleted your surname to protect your identity. You may wish to change your username to a pen name. Melly1 (Moderator)