Hi all,
I thought I had finished posting here, after MIL passed away in January last year, but now need some advice on our current situation with her estate and a pending claim from DWP RFE. I appreciate no one here can give binding legal advice, but we are wondering whether we need to get a solicitor involved to help support us with this.
Hubby is her Executor, and we finally completed on her house sale on 18 December. Relieved that we could now collate the final bills and share the estate with the other 2 beneficiaries, we were appalled to receive a call from DWP RFE department on the same day, saying there is a pending investigation on her means-tested benefits, which they may invoke a debt recovery claim against, which will fall to her Executor to settle. We had no idea there was anything outstanding with DWP, but having spoken to them by phone, provided more info on her finances and the probate value of her estate etc, we assumed this would be quickly resolved. However, having spoken to RFE dept since, there is apparently a backlog and it could be months before we get the final outcome, and any refund demand on this. Everything we are reading online is confirming this, and saying we should not share the estate until we know the outcome, as the debt will fall on my husband to settle.
We therefore contacted the other 2 beneficiaries yesterday, suggesting that we pay the majority of the money but retain a few thousand from each of them, to give us a pot to pay off any outstanding money claimed. Hubby’s brother has now come back to say he wants ALL his share NOW and provided a letter that says he will repay his share of anything owed when (if) we get proof from DWP. To complicate things further, he is in Australia, so if he did default on this, we cannot easily knock on his door and appeal for the money back, nor can we easily take him to court if it came to that.
His share will be around ÂŁ95K and we were proposing to pay him ÂŁ90K and forward the remainder as soon as the account is settled. We get ÂŁ95K as well, and her grand-daughter is due ÂŁ47K (she has agreed to take ÂŁ45 and allow us to hold ÂŁ2K from her share).
We (hubby and I) looked after MIL for 7 years before she passed - 24/7 emergency call contacts, did all her shopping, household repairs, bill paying, banking etc, basically helped her stay at home rather than going into care, which was her wish. Since she passed we have organised everything financially, kept meticulous accounts of everything spent, sorted the gravestone, paid bills, cleared, maintained and marketed her property, sorted probate, handled all the utilities etc, and yet still we are facing more hassle in finalising the estate because HE wants his money in full.
Can anyone advise what we should do here please? Our son suggested getting a solicitor involved to draw up a letter stating that we will settle the estate distribution in full, on the understanding that any reimbursement due to DWP is paid by each beneficiary pro-rata according to their share of the estate proceeds. This will obviously incur a fee, but we can charge this back to the estate whilst we still have the funds under our control (which will reduce the final share but so what …).
Any advice much appreciated as I am so pee’d off with the way we are being treated over this, but need to ensure we are not out of pocket when the DWP finally impose any debt demand on us.
If you have read this far, thank you and appreciate any info anyone can give. Thank you