Hi @Victoria_1806. I’ve been following this but needed time to think it over. I have a natural suspicion of anything that sounds good until you start asking questions.
It’s all about emptying beds. Funny thing. The NHS has been systematically reducing the number of beds available for 45 years, while the population has been increasing, and politicians are concerned that there is a bed shortage because people don’t really need the beds. Except…the study I’m quoting here shows that from 1987/8, when we had 299,000 hospital beds, there are now about 140,000 available. Of which there are always at least 90% in use at any one time, and 95% or more over winter. During covid, that was probably even higher, which explains why so many old folk were dumped into care homes to free up bed space. NHS Hospital Bed Numbers: Past, Present, Future | The King’s Fund (kingsfund.org.uk)
Hospital at home was introduced a few years before covid hit, and it can be effective. It originally relied on staff, rather than carers, doing home visits to take readings, etc., but since covid and Brexit, staff shortages have got worse. That means they can’t service the patients occupying the beds, let alone those in “virtual wards” (the other name for hospital at home), so it seems now that carers are given the job to do. In some cases it’s like a plasterer demonstrating how to skim a wall and sending you home with the tools and materials to do it yourself. No thought about aptitude, confidence, health, overload, just an expectation that you’ll do it, and as Victoria found out, the warning that if you don’t, the patient will end up back in hospital, with the implication that you are at fault as the carer, and guilty of neglect.
Unacceptable. It is up to the hospital to carry out an assessment to see if the Hospital at Home option is practical and safe for those involved. Given the number of covid strains, there’s even the possibility that Victoria and her mum could have contracted different ones, leaving the unpleasant thought that they could cross-infect each other, which would be disastrous. That’s highly unlikely, of course, but…
The point is that as Victoria is covid positive, and symptomatic, she needs to get as much rest as possible to be able to fight it off, and she’s being expected to carry on as normal - caring for mum - plus the extra elements for Hospital at Home.
Irresponsible.