Hello I am currently married to a man who has ashbergers which is desperately lonely he is selfish and doesn’t not consider me most of the time, it’s so very draining, I use to be a happy go lucky person and now I’m on anti depressants and resent him and my life most of the time.
Hi Lisa.
Welcome to an extremely quiet forum as I type.
My first thought … SUPPORT … both for your husband and yourself.
National Autism Society fits the bill :
Asperger syndrome
Also , an online community forum :
National Autistic Society - our Community
Others will be along to extend their welcomes , and provide other routes for you to follow … perhaps counseling ?
How old is he?
Did you know when you married him?
Hello and welcome!
Can he work? How old is he now? Have you had a needs assessment or not yet?