Too proud and no idea

Hello
My partner is a carer 24/7 for her son she has no one to help except her sons day service
She has been told she needs an operation but refuses as no one to care for her son
I would do it but I’m employed
What do we do ?
Who do you turn to

Hi Richard.

The guidance provided by a recent thread will be of assistance here :

https://www.carersuk.org/forum/support-and-advice/tips-and-practical-advice/hospital-appointments-38436

( Carers Trust scheme ? )

Have a perusal … and then get back to us.

Hi Richard,
Welcome to the forum.

A bit more information, would help us tailor a reply.

How many days does he do at the day service and what are the hours?

What operation does your partner need?

What are the son’s needs?

Melly1