Its been a while since I posted on here, but wondered if someone could help me .It is a complicated situation, but i will try to explain…
My son has very rare health condtion. I have been navigating through the special needs world too. His paediatrician acussed me of suffering from munchaussen by proxy, but then quietly dropped the case. However the ordeal did not stop. When social services became involved they seemed to spend their entire time filing false records of meetings witht profesionals documenting things they did not say in an obvious attempt to keep trying to discredit me. Their behaviour has been artocious. I have called and challenged them constantly and now they are starting to seriously unravel. They went as far as claiming that the fire birgade had aproved by son being locked in his bedroom every night and then refused to provide any evidence of this I found out from the fire brigade that they absolutey did not approve this arrangement and stil social services are refusing to engage with me. I have strated going through all of the things the social worker has disputed with me, which even goes as far as them disputing other “professionals” opinions in the reports, without any justification for doing so. They are notr qualifed to do so, but they are going as far as breaching their own procedures and ignoring hs medicla history and opinios given by staff at my sons school. I am so shocked at their behaviour. One of th esocial workers flits between shouting at me down the phone then laughing ast me and now her recent tactic is just to refuse to talk to me about her reports on my sons issues. I have complained to NHS and reported his GP and paediatrician to CQC.The GP and paediatrician are arguing betwen themselves as to who should coordinate his care. As for soical services I have made repeated complainrs to the police and NSPCC became inolved as well as other agencis who have raised multiple safeguarding concerns including the national level hosptials who are perplexed by this behaviour. I have filed a complaint agains the Local Authorty and reported them to my MP who is also inevtigating them. The allocated soical worker has clearly maed many many mistakes and I can prove it from the minutes and reports I have. Then on top of tis she is even bheaving in a way where she is disputing her own colleagues records held within social care and when I point it out she escaltes to her line maager who wdes in like a school yard bully telling me to stop raising my concens. Except now I am slowly being proven right and they seem a little worried now, but as with many of my experiences of social workers very few have any conscioence for thie arrgoance and never ever admit mistakes - they have a great ability to blmae someone else.
anyway now I have reported it to all these agencies i have been adivsed to report the social workers to their regulatory bodies which I have now done.
IS there anything else I can do? I have been told this does not qualiy for legal aid
I am in a state of shock having gone through so many documents prepared by the social woker that is full of false and misleding information and when I try to point this out she refuses point blank to provide me with evidence to back up what she says and then closes the conversation. Its shocking behaviour.
I thikn what will happen next is that GP will pass buck to paediatriican and social wokrer will pass buck n to her line manager and then we will have a stand off between them as to who is accountable for the problem. But even knowing who is accountable or responsble doesnt fix the problem my sonhas - he has no adequate care plam that takes into account his health and social care needs and stops his dad minimising and lying to health profesisonals and lockin ghim away to avoid getting him help
The police and firebrigade are annoyed with social services for not doing their jobs properly, the social workers are trying ot blame the NHS and the NHS is trying to blame my sons SEN school.And the national hospitals just state it is up to th e “local team” to sort out.
I am at the end of my tether. Is thee anything else I could do?