I have read thoroughly the guides about Carers assessments on carers uk site and Mind, as I am dealing with carees with mental illness.
When the Care Act came in I simply wasn’t told anything about it, I had new rights, i could get an advocate and neither were my carees.
Reviews annually, my caree had a review annually carried out by the care company supplying the care, however it was copied word for word from the previous year.
It was well known I was caring but no one ever offered or suggested a carers assessment despite my obvious caring duties. My caree was in and out of hospital should have triggered a carers assessment but nothing.
My final bad experience was that a carers assessment to have the caree sitting in the same room, I should have had the chance to talk privately. I didn’t. That’s the way they do it now a joint assessment?
There was never any follow up after the carers assessment, I was discharged from Social Services and that was that.
I have never been supplied with any useful support, emotional and practical support, anything like that, I have just been left in the dark.
The council have clearly acted illegally but if I cannot get signposted to somewhere to help with the complaint, I cannot complain effectively.
I have been put off for life from contacting social services, my caree has died , i am upset greiving, no help has been supplied, I am still angry at the way i have been treated by Social Services.
That I should have been respected and valued, helped and supported.
I should have had someone to help, a carer support worker, a sympathetic GP, my case was and still is complex.
So where do i go? who do i contact Social Services, they didn’t care and still don’t despite my request my help and support weeks ago , no one has ever got back in touch with me.
A complete and total lack of help and support while my caree was alive, a complete lack of help and support when my caree died.
So what now I just can’t face months of arguing with social services, back and forth, going through complaints and ombudsman only to get refused and turned down yet again.
Carers UK, where do i go for help, as i have said providing a wash and dress does not help mental illness, providing a day centre, when the needs are evenings, nights and weekends.
I need someone to listen, I need someone to understand, i need someone to help, not come up with useless suggestions.
I have had issues with the carers centre in the past, I have had issues with the local advocacy service so do not feel able to use them.
Very let down, just don’t trust anyone anymore.