That’s amazing that you do all that for your Mum at your age, and it’s sad that they expect you to. I’ve hurt my back today just changing mums bed (which is a daily thing at the moment) so i admire you for being fit and able to look after Mum as you do. I’m still waiting for social services at the moment, fingers crossed they get back to me soon. The carers only come for us once a day at the moment and even that’s pointless as they just come for a chat as Mum tells them she doesn’t need anything. they supposed to come help Mum downstairs in the mornings but they come very late sometimes so mum just does it herself, even though she shouldn’t.