Hello,
My Father in-law had Lewy body Dementia. I looked after him for 8 years before he died 7 years ago at the age of 80. We believe he had been showing symptoms for 20 years.
My self and my husband looked after him with very little help and as you can imagine good days and bad. It was hard work but we gave him the best care we could.
My concern, I am now worried about my husband. He is 60 years old and is showing very similar signs to his Dad. They were very similar Strong characters so I am not sure if what I am seeing is him or the start of something. There is no memory loss or any of the common things you associate with early L B.
More personality changes, anger, frustration and tiredness. We actually went out for diner with friends this week where he decided to shout at me at the table. My friends were a little shocked. When we got home I was obviously very upset and asked him why he did this. He said he didn’t and that I was spoiling a good evening. He has since said sorry but I know he doesn’t even know what he is saying sorry for. He is getting very bad R.E.M and doesn’t sleep well. He was diagnosed with Diabetes 2 a year ago and blames this for every outburst or aggression. He is loving and a great father but he is very up and down, big highs or Lows. He is very opinionated and this seems to be getting worse. He seems not to give people personal space and can be very sexually and politically incorrect. This is all words and not actions. He has also started to get a runny nose which I know can be something associated with L.B. I am looking for the very first signs of LB.His driving has also changed with aggression and gets angry with other drivers.
I am starting to make excuses for him around friends and family.
I have spoken to him about this and he tells me he has always been like this and maybe it’s me that has changed. He would not see a doctor as he would never agree to that.
I am so worried and not sure what I can do.
Any advice would be gratefully appreciated
Regards,
Kate