Hi all, I’m currently living with my mum( with my husband) I’m 1 of 4 children 
I’ve got 2 brothers and a sister. I have an older brother, a younger brother, and younger sister - however for some reason, probably because I’m a little sensible and controlling , everything has been put on me- im so tired
Welcome to the forum.
Tell us a bit more about mum, age, disability?
What sort of things do you have to do for her?
We can then make a few suggestions.
Welcome aboard, Nicola!
One suggestion I can make without the need for further information. Decide what you’re willing to do for your Mum. And remember that you don’t have sole responsibility for her. Or in actual fact, any.