@Butterfly23 So sorry to hear your news. It always comes as a shock, even when you’re expecting it. Now’s the time to look after yourself. Take care - and remember we’re here for you still.
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@Butterfly23 Hugs from me too. Always hard to lose someone and the ambivalence when it is (partially at least) self inflicted is hard to deal with. I agree CRUSE would be a good way forward but they usually do not start counselling until several months afterwards but still worth getting on waiting list. Might be worth looking into Al Anon which is a support group for families of alcoholics and maybe they have local meetings or telephone support.
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@Butterfly23 your mixed emotions are understandable. Sending (((hugs))) and cyber support. We are here when you need us.
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@Butterfly23 Sorry to read your news. Hope you are doing ok. Take time to process what has happened - good that work has given you a break. Then you can slowly start to rebuild. Keep in touch if you can………
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Thanks, I’m doing OK. The funeral date is booked and I’m working out the service details with Co-Op funeral care. I have to say, they’re excellent and have made planning very easy. I’m still sad but feeling better now that the big things are sorted.
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Co-op dealt with F-i-L’s funeral and my uncle the other week. We were pleased and my cousin who had to deal with everything because her three brothers simply argued said she was very impressed with their helpful approach. They also offered her a Grief Counsellor. I didn’t know they had that service too.
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