This is not actually a new topic, as I wrote on this topic last September, but haven’t been able to continue the topic from that post. I can only find that post on my profile and when I try clicking on it to add more I get a message saying ‘Oops! That post is not available or is private’, or words to that effect.
To cut a long story short, M was working at a butcher’s shop next door to us and living in a granny flat belonging to his boss, with his boss, his wife and his sons living right next door and a connecting door between his living room and the bedroom where one of the sons slept, often with his girl friend. He had increasingly more grievances both in the granny flat and in the workplace, so his social worker asked for M’s name to be put on the waiting list for a supported living facility for people with learning difficulties. When a vacancy became available, the social worker advocated for it to be given to M, which it was and M moved in last Monday. He got a lot of grief for moving, with a lot of very unkind comments being made about him and the other service users at the facility. There were issues with regard to the flat as well and my oldest family member, a son, who has been keeping a log, and his friend, who works in social care, told M he could resign from his job with immediate effect and also block his employers and fellow employees on his phone and on Facebook. The blocking was only advised as temporary, but M is adamant that he never wants to speak to them again. This makes it a little awkward as they are neighbours of ours, but they haven’t approached us and we haven’t seen them.
Although M had always said he would stay in his job at the butcher’s shop until he found something more suitable and autism-friendly, but things got so bad, he couldn’t wait for another job. and his key worker at the facility and social worker on the learning disability team will be checking out the possibilities. Meantime, M is enjoying his freedom and also visiting us here on a daily basis.