I’m so sorry if I’m hijacking your post .
I am at the point where I want to end my life cos one I hate seeing my mum suffer and same time im starting to resent her.
She needs bed pan every 15 min and her bladder prolapse doesn’t help.
I can’t stop crying .
I feel like I’m acting like a victim when it’s my mum who is suffering.
Post hemorrhagic stroke in March and I don’t think she’ll ever walk again either .
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through too.
I hope you have siblings or even friends who can step in a night or two for you and give you some respite.
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Hi @Lilyali, sorry to hear that you are having trouble with your mum. How long has she been out of hospital?
It could take you both time to readjust to being together especially if your mum been in hospital for a while.
I would suggest contacting the GPS and requesting a house visit for her but also have a chat with the GP as you need help and support. Also contact social services for help as well. If it is as bad as you are saying I would tell someone the whole truth.
Also contact the carers helpline for further information and advice
Helpline and other support | Carers UK.
Also phone the samaritian on 116 123,as they are always there 24/7, are good people to talk to when you need someone.
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Mum needs 24/7 residential care. You simply cannot cope with this, no one could. Something has gone really seriously wrong here, it should never have been allowed to happen. Ring Social Services and tell them you REFUSE to care for mum anymore.