My 99yr old grandad is mainly incontient and often cannot relieve himself of urine when he does feel the need to go.
He wakes up 5+ times a night needing to either pee or have his contenance pants changed.
I am exhausted from lack of sleep due to this peeing all night. It’s roughly every hour to hour and a half.
I have asked both my gp surgery and adult social care and the Incontinence people if they would catheterise him and have been refused incase of a UTI.
Has anyone else been successful in getting their caree a catheter, and if so how did you go about it?