@Jackie66 you need to fight for him to get Continuing Health Care, if he is immobile etc it is not just social care. Dementia UK or Age UK can help in giving advice.
Here is a link
NHS continuing healthcare - Social care and support guide - NHS
He now has different needs so you should not be covering this level of care.
It will be hard, but say you can’t have him home like this. Your daughter is right, it will be too much for you. Then she will be worrying about him and you.
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