I am sure other unpaid carers can identify with this.
It has been years since I did a full spring clean, the house is cluttered with old stuff, old tv, hi fi never managed to go to the tip.
The bedroom has loads of clothes that probably don’t fit my any more.
The kitchen has out of date food in the cupboards, was eating at my carees most of the time, just didn’t get much chance to cook for myself in my own house.
The bathroom I do try and clean and keep sanitary.
I still have cassette tapes stacked in a cupboard but nothing to play them on.
The curtains haven’t been washed for years, need pulling down and new ones fitted.
The whole house needs cleaning top to bottom, redecorating maybe fresh paint.
AS a carer I just haven’t had any time to myself let alone time to clean my house, that’s part of the Care Act but it was made clear to me time and time again, my caree would not get any more help, left to me and others to supply the extra care needed.
I feel ashamed seeing all this I am intelligent, I am not a slob but I am living in a tip to put some nice words on it.
I kept my carees house spick and span perfect as the council cancelled the cleaning, my caree couldn’t do the cleaning was just told to pay for a private cleaner.
I had to help many other carees with cleaning and general upkeep of the house etc, there just is no one to help , the paid carers didn’t have time.
What an uncivilised world we live in that unpaid carers have no choice to live like this.
I have no friends to come around and help, lost them through caring all the time, they just sort of drifted away.