I gave up with my G.P. surgery months ago, haven’t had my medication for months, the relationship with my G.P. has totally broken down, what am I supposed to do in this situation?
That I should contact Social Services for paid carers to come around the house, they do but they don’t turn up at the right times.
And there is just so much they can’t won’t are not allowed to do UNLESS YOU PAY EXTRA.
Every year I take/took my caree for a medication review/health check, there is NO parking at the G.P. surgery so have to drop off and park hundreds of metres away.
One year I took my caree for a flu jab, I asked for one myself, I was advised by the nurse that she would get sacked if she gave me a flu jab.
I have long term chronic health problems, immune system disorder so need a flu jab and need to look after myself healthwise.
I had to make a separate appointment to see the G.P. , walk hundreds of metres as no where to park, YES OF COURSE YOU CAN HAVE A FLU JAB.
I then had to make ANOTHER appointment with the nurse, no where to park again, walk hundreds of metres to get this flu jab which could have been given to me easily weeks ago.
I would like the manager of the Surgery sacked for wasting 2 appointments, surely there could be a flag system or just common sense giving unpaid carers flu jabs.
What if I had got flu with my compromised immune system I would have got very ill, possibly died, meaning I would not be able to care for weeks and weeks.
What if I had got flu and died? just because of red tape, we can’t do this , we can’t do that.
There is no carers register, there is no carers priority, the attitude is basically we don’t care for carers NOT OUR JOB.
It is up to Social Services to provide unpaid carer support.
The G.P. has done nothing regarding my health and my caree’s many with complex multiple health problems many from birth.
It has been suggested I change my G.P. but why should I , they need to change their attitude and give proper treatment help and support for carers/caree’s.
The North Yorkshire carers strategy suggests that carers should see their G.P. as they are a good source of information and support, NOT my G.P.
There seems to be a total lack of understanding by the G.P. of a unpaid carers role, that I should contact Social Services and they will provide all the care help and support, Social services don’t and won’t.
Perhaps the G.P.s need to learn the truth, go around with a paid carer for a day, live with a disabled person for a week like they do on the TV, then they would see what the real issues are Social care etc.
One of my long term carees died, I was and am still am devastated, the G.P. had little understanding, gave me some sleeping tablets and that’s it.
I later found out that my G.P. could have should have referred me for bereavement counselling, but now I have to wait for months.
I have read that I should go to my G.P. and ask for carer counselling, well no because it is nothing to do with the G.P.
There really seems to be a postcode lottery that some unpaid carers are getting good support from the G.P. surgery and some are getting NONE.
It should be standardised the length and breadth of the country, universal recognition of unpaid carers by ALL Social Services AND NHS staff.
That’s what it says in the Carers Strategy, Recognised, valued and supported, NOT recognised, NOT Valued and NOT supported.
Rant over, it is clear from this post I haven’t had a very good day, What am I told to do, go see my G.P., yes if there was somewhere to park and if they were willing to listen and help.