# Help in posting messages

**URL:** <https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920>\
**Category:** Feedback on Carers Connect\
**Created:** [24 October 2024 19:55 UTC](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920 "2024-10-24T19:55:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![Peonypink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e495f1/32.png) [@Peonypink](https://forum.carersuk.org/u/Peonypink)\
**Post date:** [24 October 2024 19:55 UTC](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920/1 "2024-10-24T19:55:47Z")

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I cannot find out how to post or how to reply to the lovely people who have replied to my first post. I feel bad they took time to reply and I cannot see how to reply to them

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**Author:** ![Melly1](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/forum.carersuk.org/melly1/32/34_2.png) [@Melly1](https://forum.carersuk.org/u/Melly1)\
**Post date:** [24 October 2024 20:35 UTC](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920/2 "2024-10-24T20:35:51Z")

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@Peonypink

Go to your original thread:

> [@My husband is not my husband](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/my-husband-is-not-my-husband/125874):
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> Hi everyone I am new here and this is my first post. I am carer for my husband and I am recovering from surgery for sarcoma and I have surgery for breast cancer coming up. My husband is not my husband anymore. We are hoping for a dementia diagnosis soon. I feel so alone as not only is he no longer the husband I knew so well but my family have no idea what it’s like living with someone who is no longer himself. Thanks for listening.

To reply you can either click on the blue reply button under all the replies

 ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/uploads/carersuk/original/3X/0/e/0e553086fa45582412b2664a11a5332411fc81fc.jpeg)

or click on the

 ![image](https://europe1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/uploads/carersuk/original/3X/e/8/e8b770f700a10e5a91e4c159bc836e3d082533fe.jpeg)

at the bottom of an individual person’s reply.

If you type @ followed by the start of someone’s name without a space - you can select the person’s name from a list and it alerts the person that you have replied to them.

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**Author:** ![Bert70007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3da27b/32.png) [@Bert70007](https://forum.carersuk.org/u/Bert70007)\
**Post date:** [29 December 2025 20:18 UTC](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920/5 "2025-12-29T20:18:38Z")

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It came back! took a while though

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**Author:** ![Melly1](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/forum.carersuk.org/melly1/32/34_2.png) [@Melly1](https://forum.carersuk.org/u/Melly1)\
**Post date:** [9 February 2026 22:10 UTC](https://forum.carersuk.org/t/help-in-posting-messages/125920/6 "2026-02-09T22:10:50Z")

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