Hi all
New to the forum but have been browsing for a bit before joining. A brief overview view of my story…hopefully I won’t waffle.
My wife has had lupus for 25 years and until the last 3 years it was managed ok. However she is now on immune suppression treatment to try to control it. On top of that 2 1/2 years ago fractures developed in her femurs due to long term alendronic acid use. Which resulted in 1 leg spontaneously breaking just over 2 years ago as she was on stairs and other broke as she fell. Emergency surgery was performed but 1 leg has not healed and therefore more surgery may be required, this has limited her mobility drastically.
On top of that 3 months after surgery she developed heart failure which is fortunately controlled now.
During the pandemic we have been increasingly worried about her catching covid due to her vulnerable status and we have done everything we can to stay safe. Which with 2 teenage kids is tricky.
Inevitably she got covid 4 days ago. And we contacted the hospital for anti viral treatment and left a message.They got back to us today but unfortunately I missed the call(I’d left my phone whilst doing something else) now they won’t give her the anti virals and it is my fault, and I’m now feeling guilty that I could be responsible for her being hospitalised or worse. I really have tried to do my best but can never keep on top of it all and increasingly forgetting things. I don’t know how to make it better.
Sorry for the long post I suppose I just needed to get it of my chest, I have no support network so thought this may be a start.
Paul